Children & Parenting
Reaching agreement on appropriate arrangements for the care of children after separation is a priority for separating parents.
OUR EXPERTISE AND APPROACH
We are not just experts in family law, we are also up-to-date on the latest research about children and how to minimise the impact of separation on them. We regularly act for grandparents and other people involved with the children.
We give advice on practical solutions, tailored to each family’s needs.
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Independent Children's Lawyer
An Independent Children’s Lawyer (“ICL”) is appointed by the court in many disputes involving children. These cases are generally the more difficult children’s cases where the issues affecting the children may include:-
- drug abuse
- neglect of children
- serious issues of mental health relating to the children or either or both parents
- alienation of children from a parent
- ages, maturity and wishes of the children
- proposal to split siblings
- cultural and religious differences
- special medical procedures
The ICL is appointed to look at the case from the perspective of the best interests of the child. The ICL does not take sides, act for either party or act on the “instructions” of the child.
The ICL must investigate the matter and present to the court an independent perspective about which arrangements are in the best interests of the child.
Depending on the age and maturity of the children, the ICL usually meets the child to gain some insight into the child. If the ICL meets with the child, they may explain their role in the proceedings and the court process in terms that the child is able to understand. The ICL often speaks to the child’s counsellors, school teachers and school principals to see how the child is progressing and contacts medical practitioners.
The ICL usually arranges a “family report”. A family report is prepared by an experienced Court Child Expert or Family Consultant who is normally a psychologist or a social worker. The family report writer sees the parents, the children and sometimes other family members. The family report makes recommendations regarding what arrangements will best meet the child’s future care, welfare and developmental needs. The court and the ICL are guided by these recommendations.
The ICL examines documents which may be subpoenaed from organisations such as:
- Department of Fairness, Families and Housing – if there have been past allegations or there are current allegations, that the children are abused or are at risk of being abused
- Victoria Police – for criminal records of the parties or their current partners
- Schools – for the progress and developmental records of the children
- Medical, psychiatric and psychological records of the children and/or their parents
- Vic Roads – for speeding fines or other motor vehicle related offences
Ultimately, the role of the ICL is to put independent objective material to the court and help the court to make a decision that is in the best interests of the child. The ICL may act as the “honest broker” trying to mediate or broker a settlement between the parties.
For more information go to: https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/children/icl
You may need to seek court orders to protect your child/ren before final orders are made. The court has the power to hear urgent applications from parties seeking interlocutory (temporary) orders and/or injunctions.
In some rare circumstances, the court will hear matters that require extremely urgent action and make orders ex parte (without notifying the other party). These are only granted in matters with exceptional circumstances.
With respect to parenting matters, urgent interlocutory orders may be made by the court for a recovery order (for a child to be returned to a parent), a watchlist order (to prevent a party taking a child out of the country) or warrant for arrest (to order that a party attend court).
For more information go to: https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/children/urgent-app
The law that applies in Australia in relation to the care of children after separation is the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) (“the Act“). It states that the most important matter when determining a dispute about the future care of a child, is the best interests of that child.
Best interests of the child
The Act sets out the primary and additional considerations for determining what is in a child’s best interests.
The primary considerations are:
- The benefit to the child of having a meaningful relationship with both parents; and
- The need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm by being exposed to abuse, neglect or family violence.
Greater weight must be given to protecting a child from harm.
The additional considerations include:
- Any views expressed by a child and factors relevant to the weight that should be given to those views;
- The child’s relationship with each parent and other persons;
- The extent to which each parent has participated in a child’s life and decisions affecting that child and provided financial support for that child;
- The capacity of each parent to provide for a child’s needs;
- The practical difficulty and expense of a child seeing and communicating with each parent;
- The demonstrated attitude of each parent towards a child and the responsibilities of parenthood;
- The maturity, sex, lifestyle and background of a child and child’s parents; and
- Any family violence.
A formal agreement for the care arrangements of a child is often not necessary. Alternatively, an agreement can be formally recorded as parenting orders made by a court or, more informally as a parenting plan.
There are three key concepts under the Act in relation to children, being:
- Parental responsibility – the responsibility for making decisions relating to a child’s long term care, welfare or development, such as a child’s schooling, health and religion;
- With whom a child lives – the person/s with whom the child primarily resides; and
- With whom a child spends time – the person/s a child is to spend time with.
A court can make parenting orders setting out each person’s responsibility for a child, including:
- How parental responsibility is shared;
- With whom a child lives;
- The time a child spends with and/or communicates with each parent and others;
- The form of consultation between persons responsible for decisions relating to a child;
- Maintenance of a child; and
- Any other aspect relating to the care, welfare and development of a child.
When making parenting orders, a court starts with the presumption that it is in a child’s best interests for the parents to have equal shared parental responsibility. If there has been family violence or abuse, the presumption does not apply.
If equal shared parental responsibility is in a child’s best interests, the court must consider whether it is practical for a child and in that child’s best interests to spend equal time with each parent. If an equal time arrangement is not suitable, an arrangement to spend “substantial and significant time” with each parent must be considered. Sometimes it is not in the best interests of a child or practical for a child to spend equal time or substantial and significant time with each parent.
Substantial and significant time means a child spends time with a parent on weekdays, weekends and holidays, enables the parent to be involved in the daily routine and significant events of a child and enables a child to be involved in significant events of the parent.
Parenting orders can be made in favour of grandparents, step-parents, social parents and others who are involved with the children.
For more information go to: https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-parenting
Relocation - Interstate and Overseas
One of the most difficult areas of family law practice arises when a parent wants to move, taking a child with them. This may be a move interstate, within the same State (including from one side of a city to another) or overseas.
It is a difficult area in many respects. It has a significant impact on the arrangements for the care of the child. The change is very likely to upset the other parent. One parent inevitably feels like the loser if the child moves away and the parent’s time with that child is altered.
The main question is whether the proposed relocation is best for the child. The principles considered include:
- the best interests of the child are the paramount consideration, but are not the sole consideration
- the application for relocation may be successful even if the reasons are not compelling for the proposed relocation
- the reasons for the parent’s proposed relocation are only one matter considered
- competing proposals are looked at in terms of their advantages and disadvantages, and the best interests of the child
The court weighs up the parents’ competing proposals and determines the best interests of the child. Each of the parents must have detailed proposals and explain to the court how their proposals will promote the children’s best interests.
The proposal by the parent seeking to relocate with a child must set out very clearly:
- The place where the child will live
- The school the child will attend including curriculum, extra curricular sport, costs, etc
- The time the child will spend with the other parent and how the costs of travel, and possibly the accommodation of the other parent, will be paid
- The communication the child will have with the other parent
Courts prefer detailed proposals which show that the parent seeking to move has thought about the proposal and designed it to promote the best interests of the child.
A proposal by a parent seeking to oppose a relocation must set out:
- Where will the child live
- If the child will live with the parent opposing the move, the reasons for this. Why did the parent not previously apply for the child to live with that parent?
- Can the parent move to the place where the other parent wants to move?
Courts are often reluctant to alter long standing arrangements where one parent has been the primary carer of the child.
However, this is not to discourage parents seeking to oppose relocation. Not each and every application for relocation will be allowed. The primary consideration is “what is best for the child”.
An international move will, of necessity, place extra strain on the child’s relationship with the non-relocating parent. The court may be reluctant to allow relocation if it will be difficult to preserve the child’s relationship with the non-relocating parent.
Each case is determined on its merits. There are no guarantees of the outcome for either parent. The court tries to do what it perceives is best for the child.
For more information go to: https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/children/relocation-travel
Special Needs of Children
We understand that some children have special needs. We have had experience in negotiating and obtaining parenting orders for children with special or extra needs arising from:
- Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
- Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy
- music or sporting ability
- educational giftedness
- intellectual and learning disabilities
An agreement for the care arrangements of a child should accommodate any special needs of a child.
An assessment by the Child Support Agency can be departed from to meet the increased costs of maintaining a child with special needs. Special needs do not always arise from a disability, but may arise from a special ability. Needs are special if they are beyond the usual needs of a child. Needs which may need to be met include facilities for a child with disabilities, medical expenses, and education.
Maintenance for a child over 18 years of age can be ordered by the court to enable a child to complete their education, or because a child has a mental or physical disability. In determining the care arrangements for a child, the best interests of the child is the paramount consideration. When entering into care arrangements for a child with special needs the ability of each party to care for the child and meet the child’s needs are considered.
COVID-19 and travel restrictions
As a result of the COVID-19 global pandemic, many parenting arrangements have been affected by border closures as well as local and international travel restrictions. In response to the challenges posed in these unprecedented circumstances, the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) has established a special National COVID-19 List to manage urgent family law disputes that have arisen as a result of the pandemic.
For more information go to:
Special court lists for parenting proceedings
The Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) has created several special lists to meet the core principles of the court to prioritise the safety of children, vulnerable parties and provide efficient and effective resources and case management. The specialist lists now available include:
- An Indigenous list to provide an appropriate pathway to deal with family law matters involving parties who identify as Aboriginal or Torres Strait Island;
- A National Contravention List to manage breaches of court orders in a quick, safe and cost-effective way;
- A National COVID-10 List to deal with urgent family law disputes arising as a direct result of the global pandemic; and
- The Evatt List and Lighthouse Project is being piloted in Adelaide, Brisbane and Parramatta for high risk matters to ensure families who are most vulnerable receive the appropriate resources and support to strengthen safety and wellbeing. Where there are allegations of sexual abuse or physical abuse against a child, some matters may be referred to a Magellan Registrar.