Separation Lawyers Melbourne
Separation is a clear process that finalises the relationship for de facto couples, distinct from resolving parenting matters and property division. We can guide you through any challenges you encounter during your separation, offering strategic advice and representation. Our approach is focused on providing practical solutions with personalised service and care.
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Our experienced team can guide you through the process of finalising a de facto separation, helping you navigate any unique challenges. These may include issues like proving the relationship, property division, family violence, or conflicts about parenting arrangements.
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Should I see a lawyer before separating?
While seeing a lawyer before separating is not required, it can be very beneficial to do so. Consulting a lawyer early can help you understand your rights and responsibilities, particularly when it comes to property division, parenting arrangements, and spousal maintenance.
A separation lawyer can help you:
- Understand your rights and entitlements: A lawyer will provide you with clear information about your legal rights regarding assets, property, and children.
- Prevent costly mistakes: By getting legal advice before making major decisions, you can avoid making mistakes that might limit your future options or hurt your case in court.
- Plan for the separation: Experienced family lawyers can assist you with planning how to separate in a way that reduces conflict and protects your interests, particularly in cases where complex financial or parenting arrangements are involved.
- Manage complex issues: If there are concerns about family violence, domestic abuse, or other complex matters, it’s essential to have legal guidance from the start to protect your safety and ensure your rights are upheld.
While seeing a lawyer is not a legal requirement before separating, it’s often the best way to navigate the legal complexities. Get in touch with our highly experienced team of Melbourne family lawyers today for pre-separation advice.
How do I finalise a de facto separation when we have entangled assets?
If you are in a de facto relationship, it’s important to carefully consider the timing of legal proceedings, particularly when it comes to property settlements and financial matters. Unlike divorce, which formalises the end of a marriage, a de facto separation does not require a formal “divorce” process. However a legal separation will often require resolving property and financial matters after separation, which can still be complex, especially when assets are jointly owned or entangled.
If you and your former de facto partner jointly own property or have shared financial interests, such as a family business or self-managed superannuation funds, it’s crucial not to rush into finalising any separation agreements before addressing these entangled assets. In de facto separations, similar to marriages, it is important to ensure that property matters are fully resolved before proceeding with any final steps that could limit your options later on.
Here are a few key considerations when dealing with entangled assets in a de facto separation:
1. Property Settlement Timing
Unlike divorce, which can be finalised after 12 months of separation, de facto couples do not need to wait for a formal dissolution of the relationship. However, there are time limits on how long you have to resolve property matters. Generally, you must apply for a property settlement within two years of the date of separation. If you miss this deadline, you will need to seek permission from the court to make a claim, which can complicate the process, and permission may not be given.
2. Spousal Maintenance Considerations
In de facto separations, you may be entitled to spousal maintenance, depending on factors such as the length of the relationship, the financial needs of one partner, and the ability of the other to provide support. Like property settlements, claims for spousal maintenance must be made within two years of separation. After this time, the court will only hear your claim if you can show special circumstances.
To avoid being caught out by these time limits, it is essential to address spousal maintenance claims alongside property matters rather than later on. In many cases, it is advisable not to proceed with formalising your separation (or applying for a divorce, if applicable) until these financial matters have been resolved or at least been started through legal proceedings.
3. Avoid Rushing into Divorce or Final Agreements
It can be tempting to proceed with a divorce or finalise separation as soon as possible, but this can be risky when entangled assets are involved. If you prematurely apply for a divorce or settle property matters before addressing all financial issues, you may inadvertently limit your future options, especially if you later realise that more assets or entitlements are at stake than originally thought.
In de facto separations, we recommend that you carefully consider negotiating property settlements and resolving financial matters to protect your financial interests and ensure a fair and equitable outcome regarding the division of assets.
Here are a few key considerations when dealing with entangled assets in a de facto separation:
In Australian family law, there are key differences between a de facto separation and separating from a marriage before divorce.
Legal Definition and Recognition
De Facto Separation: A de facto relationship involves the separation of two people living together as a couple but without being legally married. The relationship can be between heterosexual or same-sex partners. For legal purposes, de facto couples are treated similarly to married couples in relation to property settlement, parenting arrangements, and other family law matters, provided the relationship meets certain criteria, such as having lived together for at least two years or having a child together.
Formal Process and Legal Documentation
De Facto Separation: When de facto couples separate, they do not need to file for divorce or do any paperwork or applications. Instead, they must focus on making it clear that there has been a change in their relationship to mark their separation and reach agreements regarding property division and parenting arrangements if required, either privately or through court orders if necessary.
De facto couples can apply for property settlements or parenting orders through the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia and may need to establish the length and nature of their relationship and the date of their separation to access these rights.
Marriage Separation: In marriage separation, couples can file a divorce application in the Family Court of Australia or the Federal Circuit Court after a 12-month separation period. This step formalises the dissolution of the marriage, but the couple must also resolve property settlements and parenting matters separately, often through negotiation, mediation, or court orders.
Time Limits for Property Claims
It is important to be aware of time limits for property and parenting matters following a de facto separation. Generally, you must file an application for property settlement within two years from the date of separation. If you miss this time limit, you may need to seek permission from the court to bring your application forward, which can be a complicated process.
De Facto Separation: For de facto couples, the time limit to apply for a property settlement is two years from the date of separation. If this time limit is missed, the court may allow an extension in certain circumstances, but this requires permission from the court.
Marriage Separation: For married couples, the time limit to apply for a property settlement is also 12 months from the date of divorce. However, property claims can be made while the divorce is pending as long as it’s within this timeframe.
While there is no strict time limit for parenting arrangements, it is highly recommended that these matters be addressed as soon as possible to avoid prolonged uncertainty. The court prioritises the best interests of the child and generally encourages parents to resolve disputes through negotiation or Family Dispute Resolution before pursuing formal proceedings.
If you are uncertain about time limits or need guidance in navigating your separation, our team of family law experts is here to provide you with tailored advice and support.
Rights and Entitlements
De Facto Separation: De facto partners have similar rights to married couples regarding property division and parenting matters, but these rights must be established under the Family Law Act 1975. De facto couples can apply to the court for property settlements and parenting orders, similar to married couples, provided they meet the eligibility criteria.
Marriage Separation: Married couples are automatically recognised under the Family Law Act and have entitlements to property division, financial support, and parenting arrangements. Divorce is the legal step to formalise the end of the marriage, but property and parenting matters are often addressed before or during the divorce process.
In both cases, seeking expert family law advice is essential to understand your rights and obligations and to navigate the separation process effectively.
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How do I choose a good separation lawyer?
If you are navigating a de facto separation, it is important to choose a lawyer who can provide clear, expert legal advice tailored to your situation. Begin by asking for recommendations from people you trust and getting a sense of which lawyers seem to have experience with de facto relationship matters, and other specific family law matters you are managing.
For complex family law matters, working with Accredited Family Law Specialists, such as the team at Forte Family Lawyers, will ensure you receive expert guidance tailored to de facto separations. Family law issues arising from a de facto separation—such as property settlement, parenting arrangements, or matters of domestic violence — require a lawyer with specific expertise in this area.
It’s important to understand that a family law lawyer can help with all aspects of a de facto separation, not just the legal process of formalising the end of the relationship. A good family lawyer can assist in negotiating property settlements, addressing parenting matters, and providing support in cases involving domestic violence, such as physical or emotional abuse.
Choosing a lawyer with experience in handling de facto separations will ensure that you have the necessary expertise to navigate the complexities of your matter. A skilled lawyer will support you at each step of the process and work to secure the best possible outcome for you and your family.
What are the best options for resolving family law disputes?
In Australian family law matters, attending court is a last resort in most cases. There are a number of ways to resolve your matter, and a family lawyer can help you to understand which one is right for your situation.
- Negotiation: Direct communication between parties to reach an agreement without court involvement.
- Mediation: A neutral third party (mediator) helps both sides discuss and resolve issues in a structured way.
- Family Dispute Resolution (FDR): A formal mediation process, often required by law before court for parenting disputes.
- Court Proceedings: If other methods fail, taking the matter to the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court for a formal resolution may be necessary.
How can I ensure a fair settlement after we have separated?
In a de facto separation, property and parenting arrangements are typically resolved through private agreements or formal orders made by consent in the Federal Circuit Court and Family Court of Australia. A private agreement must meet the requirements for a financial agreement.
Orders may be fully agreed upon by both parties and signed off at a hearing or sometimes without a hearing altogether. However, if both parties cannot agree, the process may take longer and involve more negotiation or court proceedings.
For property settlements, the court aims for a “just and equitable” outcome, considering both monetary and non-monetary contributions made by each party, as well as factors such as future needs, earning capacity, and the best interests of any children involved. If you need advice or assistance with property settlements or financial matters following a de facto separation, we encourage you to book an initial consultation with our experienced team.
Our family law experts assist many Melbourne families in navigating financial settlements and help couples negotiate long-term parenting plans and child custody arrangements.
How does the court determine child custody after couples separate?
In a de facto separation or divorce where there are children involved, the courts no longer use the term “child custody”. The focus is on making parenting arrangements that are in the best interests of the child. Parenting matters are separate from property settlements, and these issues are addressed through family law proceedings. Forte Family Lawyers can assist you with legal matters relating to de facto separation, including parenting arrangements and property settlements.
Some people wish to resolve issues related to parenting, property settlement, and other family matters as quickly as possible, while others may need to work with a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner before proceeding with legal action. As trusted family lawyers, Melbourne, we offer personal service and expert advice on all family law matters. We work with same-sex and de facto couples to address all aspects of relationship breakdown and separation.
How does family violence (or domestic violence) impact family law matters?
Family violence can have a significant impact on both parenting and property matters, often being a key factor in the breakdown of a relationship. If there are existing orders in place, such as an Intervention Order or Child Protection Order, these may require one party to stay away from the other, and potentially from the children involved, to ensure their safety and wellbeing.
In cases of family violence, different types of orders can be sought. A Family Violence Intervention Order is typically obtained in the Magistrates’ Court. Police can also apply for a Safety Notice, Interim Intervention Order, or Final Intervention Order on your behalf. If necessary, a lawyer can assist in negotiating the terms of these orders or in renegotiating parenting arrangements to ensure the safety and best interests of the children.
If you have been served with a Safety Notice or an Interim Intervention Order, we can also help you contest these orders and work to negotiate terms that allow you to maintain contact with your children, where appropriate, while adhering to the legal requirements.
Restraining orders can also be issued by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia to prevent one party from taking actions, such as selling property until a final court decision or mutual agreement is reached. These orders can help protect property and ensure that both parties comply with agreed-upon terms. Additionally, restraining orders can protect the children’s welfare by imposing conditions that ensure both parents act in the children’s best interests—for example, preventing one parent from denigrating the other in the children’s presence or relocating the children without consent or court approval.
If you need support for your divorce, please contact Forte Family and Divorce Lawyers, Melbourne.
Do we need to make Parenting Orders before we are separated?
Not at all. A de facto separation is a distinct process from matters such as child custody, property settlement, and other relationship breakdown issues, which a family lawyer can assist you with. Forte Family Lawyers offer expert services to help you navigate these matters. Some people are able to resolve issues related to separation, property settlement and children’s arrangements amicably and quickly, while others may need to work with a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner before pursuing legal action.
As trusted family lawyers in Melbourne, we provide personalised service and expert advice on all aspects of family law, including de facto relationships and separation. We work with both same-sex and heterosexual couples to address all issues that arise from relationship breakdowns and separation.
How is child support organised after separation?
After separating, child support can be organised through a Child Support Agency assessment or a binding or limited child support agreement. The Australian Child Support Scheme determines the amount payable based on each parent’s income and care percentages. A binding child support agreement offers some flexibility for both parents to agree on child support payments outside of the assessment.
At Forte Family Lawyers, we provide expert family law services to help you navigate the child support process and ensure fair arrangements for your children’s future. Let us support you with clear, compassionate guidance.
What happens to my Will after separation?
If you separate from your partner, it is advisable to update your Will to reflect this change. Separation does not automatically alter the terms of your Will under Victorian law, but any provisions made for your spouse may not align with your current intentions.
Your existing Will remains valid unless you formally revoke it or create a new one. If you do not have a Will in place, it is crucial to make one. Under the law of intestacy, if you die without a valid Will, your spouse may still be entitled to a share of your estate, even after separation.
In the event of a divorce, Victorian law provides that any provisions in your Will that benefit your former spouse will be treated as though they are revoked, unless the Will expressly states otherwise. Therefore, if you do not want this to happen, you should update your Will to reflect your wishes.
If you remarry, your existing Will is automatically revoked, unless it was made in contemplation of your marriage. This means that unless you create a new Will specifically addressing your new circumstances, your estate may be distributed according to the law of intestacy or any previous Wills.
What am I entitled to in a separation?
In Australia, what you are entitled to during a separation depends on the specifics of your relationship and any agreements made before or during the relationship.
Generally, entitlements can include:
- Parenting Time: If there are children involved, both parents are encouraged to participate in decisions regarding their care, welfare, and education, if it is in the best interests of the children. If parents cannot agree, the court will determine arrangements based on the best interests of the child, considering factors such as the child’s relationship with each parent, the parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs, and the child’s wishes (depending on their age and maturity).
- Property Division: Both de facto couples and married couples have the right to a fair division of property accumulated during the relationship. This includes assets like the family home, vehicles, savings, and any other jointly owned property. The division takes into account contributions (monetary and non-monetary, homemaking and parenting), the future needs of both parties, and the best interests of any children involved.
- Spousal Maintenance: If one partner is unable to support themselves financially after separation, they may be entitled to spousal maintenance from the other party, depending on the circumstances.
- Superannuation: Superannuation is considered a form of property and may be divided between partners as part of a property settlement.
Entitlements vary depending on the length of the relationship, each party’s contributions, and specific circumstances. Seeking legal advice is crucial to understanding your rights.
What should not be done during separation?
During a separation in Melbourne (and Australia-wide), our lawyers recommend several things that you should avoid to protect your legal rights and minimise conflict:
- Avoid making decisions in haste: Don’t rush into final decisions about property, finances, or parenting arrangements. Take the time to fully understand your rights and seek legal advice before making any major decisions.
- Don’t hide assets: Both parties in a separation have an obligation to disclose all assets, liabilities, and income. Hiding assets or failing to be transparent can negatively impact your case and may lead to legal penalties.
- Avoid aggressive or abusive behaviour: In cases of separation, particularly if family violence is involved, it’s essential to maintain respectful communication. Aggressive or abusive behaviour can harm your case, especially if it affects children or your ability to reach a fair resolution.
- Don’t ignore legal advice: While it’s not mandatory to hire a lawyer immediately, ignoring legal advice can make matters worse, especially in complex issues such as property division or parenting arrangements. Consulting a lawyer early on can help ensure you understand your rights and avoid mistakes.
- Don’t delay finalising important legal documents: While you don’t have to rush, delaying agreements or court orders regarding property or parenting arrangements can create complications, especially when it comes to time limits for property settlements and spousal maintenance claims.
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